You know what they say –“no good deed goes unpunished.” One minute you’re the family hero, and the next you’re the bad guy for asking for a little something in return. It’s like the bigger the favor, the smaller the thanks.
That’s exactly what happened to one Redditor who turned into an off-duty lifeguard when his toddler nephew fell into the backyard pool, and he saved the kid’s life. But instead of gratitude, his brother got mad when he asked him to cover the cost of his now-soggy smartphone.
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One man finds out the hard way that no good deed goes unpunished after rescuing his nephew from drowning, only to grieve his now-ruined phone
The man and his family are enjoying some time together when his brother’s son falls into the pool, so the man jumps in and saves his life
The hero ruins his phone while saving his nephew from drowning, he asks his brother to buy him a new one but he refuses, saying he is not responsible for it
The OP’s (original poster) big brother was supposed to be watching his 3-year-old son during a family hangout at his parent’s place. But in a “blink and you miss it” moment, the kid managed to fall into the pool. Thankfully the OP heard the splash, jumped in like a superhero, and pulled the toddler out to safety. No injuries, no permanent damage – except to his phone, which didn’t survive the rescue mission.
The entire family was relieved, but shaken. Grandpa even started making plans to gate the pool so it never happens again. But the real splash came after the rescue, when our young hero told his brother he’d be buying a new phone and sending him the bill. The dude’s response? A shocked “are you serious right now?” Apparently, he thought asking for money was wildly inappropriate, after his son almost drowned.
But the OP wasn’t having it. He pointed out that the near-drowning only happened because dad was too distracted to notice his toddler doing laps unsupervised. In the OP’s mind, saving the kid earned him not just a thank-you, but a full reimbursement for his now-ruined device, preferably with a few tears of gratitude and a fruit basket. And honestly, he’s not wrong for wanting that.
While someone’s life is priceless, (you can’t put a dollar sign on that kind of act) phones aren’t cheap—and jumping in to save someone’s life shouldn’t come with a $900 bill. After all, if your negligence caused the situation and someone else suffered material damage to protect your kid, isn’t footing the bill the least you could do, big bro?
Taking responsibility for your actions is a sign of emotional maturity. Unfortunately, dodging accountability is practically a sport for some folks. Psychologists might link this to entitlement, trauma, shame or perfectionism. These folks often grow up in environments where mistakes are punished harshly or where apologizing is seen as weakness.
Instead of reflecting on their actions, they play the blame game—“You shouldn’t have left your phone in your pocket,” rather than “I wasn’t watching my kid.” The solution? Don’t take the blame. Hold them accountable with facts, not feelings. You can’t force growth, but you can stop enabling denial.
In the meantime, it might be a good idea for big bro to learn how to childproof a home for his little one. Because pools may be fun, but they’re basically splashy danger zones if you’ve got little ones running around. Gates and locks aren’t just fancy accessories—they’re must-haves. Cover pools, install childproof locks on doors leading outside, and don’t underestimate a toddler’s talent for mischief.
Got a backyard? Scan it for anything climbable, chewable, or launchable. Inside the house, slap outlet covers on sockets, anchor that TV before it becomes a pancake, and keep small objects out of reach unless you want your living room to turn into a game of “Will It Fit in My Mouth?” The goal? Fewer emergency rescues and broken phones, more juice box break times.
What do you think of this story? Is the poster right to ask his brother to pay for his damaged phone? Share your thoughts and comments below!
Netizens are divided on this story, some saying the man is not a jerk for asking his brother to buy him a new phone, while others think he might be wrong
