50 Women Who Got The Internet’s Attention Because Of Their Delusional Behavior (New Pics)

Men and women have their fair share of unpleasant qualities. Toxic masculinity exists in various forms, and those who engage in such behavior deserve to be shamed.

This also applies to “nice girls,” women who are anything but. They’re the types who escalate arguments, act unreasonably, and feel entitled to special treatment. They may initially seem normal, until their true colors show sooner or later.

Check out these screenshots of text exchanges involving these women. Scroll through and see which of these unhinged traits you’ve encountered so far.

We also spoke with Amanda Ann Gregory, a licensed trauma psychotherapist and author of You Don’t Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own, and Amie Leadingham, a relationship coach and dating expert. They were kind enough to share their insights about the link between trauma and toxic behavior.

#1 How Dare I Make Up An Analogy

#2 Entitled Moms (Poor Kids!)

#3 Girl, Stop With The Victim Mentality And Take The Responsibility For What You Did!

The impact of trauma, particularly PTSD, has been linked with toxic behavior. The National Center for PTSD describes these as “stress reactions” that may go away over time.

According to Amanda, these behaviors are typically a product of a person’s reaction to feeling emotionally unsafe in relationships. This applies to many trauma survivors, who may or may not meet the criteria for a PTSD diagnosis.

#4 Just Found Out Im A Narcassist

#5 Does This Count?

#6 Targeting My Dad

As an example, Amanda used parental abuse, where a person may not feel safe engaging in relationships as an adult. Their subconscious reactions would be to drive the person away and ultimately sabotage the relationship.

“You might initiate conflicts, avoid expressing emotional vulnerability, tolerate abuse, or end relationships prematurely, to name a few,” she told We.

#7 She Messaged Me Just To Tell Me She Didn’t Like My Profile

#8 I Finally Got One

#9 My Ex Got Her Doctorate In Hating

As for female toxic behavior, Amanda attributes it to patriarchal societies like the United States. As she explained, their actions may be a way to keep themselves safe in a relationship.

“For example, a heterosexual woman who experienced intimate partner violence may unknowingly engage in actions that sabotage her relationships with men, or she may cater to men to keep them happy to promote her safety,” she stated, adding that patriarchal societies equally inflict the same harm upon men.

#10 2nd Date, I Picked Her Up, She Said She Was Uncomfortable, I Took Her Back To Her Friends, 1-2 Hours Passed…then She Texts Me All This In Span Of 1 Hour

#11 Why Do I Keep Matching With These Crappy People?

#12 Still Shocked By This

Most experts would recommend professional help for trauma survivors. However, not all methods would be effective. For Amanda, talk therapy may not be the solution because, as she explained, it’s not developed to access the regions of the brain “where trauma lives and thrives.”

“Instead, I recommend bottom-up therapies that address these impacted areas, such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems, Animal-Assisted Therapy, and Attachment Therapy.”

Amie also recommends group therapy, as hearing other people’s experiences helps break through isolation. However, it all boils down to finding a trustworthy therapist.

“Someone who offers both compassion for what they’ve been through and gentle accountability for changing harmful patterns,” she stated.

#13 Such A Nice Girl

#14 Bumble Match Randomly Got Nasty

#15 Just Feel Like Posting LOL

However, a toxic individual likely won’t agree to professional help if they don’t recognize the problem. As Amie points out, knowing the root of the problem and having the genuine desire to change can absolutely break the toxic cycles and build better relationships.

#16 Just Remembered This Old Screenshot (For Context Gray Is My Ex Girlfriend We Hadn’t Dated For 3-4 Months And Then This Happened

#17 Blocked Her Right After The This And She Still Trying To Contact Me To This Day

#18 Got One ?

Trauma survivors and people who grew up in an unhealthy environment aren’t necessarily bound to repeat the toxic cycle. Prevention is always better than cure, and Amie advises seeking out people in healthy relationships and noticing what emotional maturity looks like.

“The goal is to learn how to deal with emotions rather than bottling them up,” she explained. “It takes work, but people can build better relationship skills than they grew up seeing.”

#19 First Time Had This Happen In My 27 Years Of Life

#20 Random Message From Homophobic Lady

#21 She Said “Then I’m Not The Girl For You” Because I Didn’t Want To Get On Her 2 Month Waiting List For A Date

How about you, dear readers? Have you encountered these “nice girls” that exhibit similar behaviors as shown above? What do you think is the best approach when dealing with them? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

#22 This Came Out Of Nowhere

#23 What Did I Do Wrong?

#24 I Saw This Somewhere Else A Few Weeks Ago And I’m Still Laughing About It

#25 Context: I Broke Up With A Girl After She Kept Showing Me Disinterest And Started Dating Someone New

#26 “I’d Rather He Be Miserable With Me Than Happy Without Me”

#27 A Real Catch

#28 Girl I Was Seeing For A Bit

#29 Posted In The Discgolf Sub

#30 She Blocked Me On Everything But Expects A Letter?

#31 Broke Up And She Immediately Posted This

#32 My Ex Being My Ex

#33 My Ex Girlfriend Reposted This. She Cheated On Me Multiple Times Over Our 3 Year Relationship LOL

#34 Pastor’s Daughter

#35 She Couldn’t Wait 20 Mins For A Text Response And Crashed Out

#36 I’m Genuinely Scared…

#37 Me, Me, Me

#38 Girl Who I Was Talking To For About A Month Slept With A Guy And I Broke Things Off, 3 Months Later She Is Begging For A Second Chance

#39 Pickup Line Nicegirl Meltdown

#40 It Was For Business… Then

#41 Well Ok Then

#42 I Experienced My First “Nicegirl” Meltdown

#43 She Wasn’t Happy I Was Going To See A Female Friend

#44 Still Trying To Process This A Day And A Half Later

#45 After Talking One Day…i Dodged A Bullet

#46 A Lesbian Friend Who Kept Making Advances Toward Me (I’m Straight). When I Finally Blocked Her, She Went Batsh*t Crazy

#47 Yikes, Rough Landing

#48 She Accused Me Of Cheating On Her When She Had Absolutely No Proof And Used My Phone To Text Everyone In It That I Cheated Ruining Multiple Friendships And Career Opportunities